“Whatever doesn’t kill you makes you stronger,” goes the phrase. And somehow, we all actually believe it.
We humblebrag that we’re stressed about work, our families, our finances, and how hard and time-consuming it is to plow through everything on our vast and daily to-do lists.
We’re super stressed about politics, natural disasters, climate change — even who will win the Super Bowl.
Stress may be an unavoidable part of life, but when you get stressed and stay stressed, it’s no badge of honor.
Think of the last prolonged stressful situation you were in. Not something that lasted an hour or two, like a root canal at the dentist’s office, but one that lasted weeks, months, or even years: a high-intensity job with a ruthless boss, for instance, or caring for a sick parent.
During that time, did you eventually find it harder to make simple decisions, remember the right word for something, or just keep track of your car keys?
At the time, it might have felt like the universe was conspiring against you. But there’s a scientific reason for what was more likely happening: Stress has the ability to physically shrink your brain.
When you get stressed, your body releases cortisol, aka the stress hormone.
In limited bursts, this isn’t a bad thing. Cortisol has the power to lower your blood pressure, manage your blood sugar, and reduce inflammation within the body.
Researchers at the University of California at Berkeley even found that when lab rats were exposed to brief stressful events (“brief” being the operative word), stem cells in their brains actually bloomed into new nerve cells. As a result, the rats’ mental performance improved.
But chronic stress — that is, repeated and prolonged exposure to something stressful, like the demanding job or gravely ill parent mentioned above — doesn’t offer the same perks.
Over long periods of time, elevated levels of cortisol can push you further down the road toward obesity, heart disease, depression, high blood pressure, and unhealthy lifestyle behaviors.
There’s proof it takes a toll on your gray matter as well.
“High cortisol levels secreted due to stress damage and reduce the volume of the brain,” said Dr. Janette Nesheiwat, a board-certified family and emergency medicine doctor in New York City. “We can see this on scans of the brain.”
Two areas affected are the hippocampus, which plays a central role in learning and memory, and the prefrontal cortex, which regulates thoughts, emotions, and actions by “talking” to other brain regions.
In a recent study published online in the journal Neurology, researchers checked cortisol levels in the blood of 2,231 healthy middle-aged people. They also assessed their memory and thinking skills and took images of their brains.
What they found was that participants — particularly women — who had high levels of cortisol in their blood did poorer on memory and cognitive tests. Over time, they also appeared to lose brain volume.
“Slightly lower brain volumes and memory performance of the magnitude seen in this study are associated with a higher risk of dementia 10 to 20 years later,” said Dr. Sudha Seshadri, one of the study’s authors and director of the Glenn Biggs Institute for Alzheimer’s and Neurodegenerative Diseases at UT Health San Antonio.
Dr. Monica Starkman, a faculty psychiatrist at the University of Michigan Medical School, observed a similar “shrinkage” phenomenon in patients with active Cushing disease. It’s a rare condition in which too much cortisol is produced in the body.
“When we used [an] MRI to examine their brains, we found that indeed, the hippocampus was reduced in size compared to norms for human subjects,” Starkman said. “The hippocampus is important for learning, and we found that scores for learning were associated with the volume of the hippocampus.”
So, should these study results serve as a wake-up call that our stressful, “I’ll sleep when I die” lifestyle may not be worth the long-term costs?
Yes, says Seshadri, adding this even includes herself.
Yet before you stress about your brain shrinking, keep in mind that it’s unclear whether this change is permanent.
When Starkman’s patients were studied a year after their treatment for Cushing disease (which usually consists of pituitary surgery), their cortisol levels had gone down and the volume of the hippocampus increased.
“Their scores in learning increased as well,” Starkman said.
We also know that a person’s memory performance can improve, points out Seshadri. “Reducing stress might [also] help, but the only way to be sure is through clinical trials, and these have not yet been done,” she said.
For now, your best bet is to simply protect your brain from stress as best as you can. To do that, it helps to know what stress looks and feels like.
We tend to most commonly associate stress with irritability or tears, but it’s not always so obvious.
“Cognitive signs of stress can include memory loss, difficulty thinking, concentrating, and decision-making,” Nesheiwat said.
Stress can manifest as physical symptoms as well. For instance, you may experience fatigue, weight loss, headaches, digestive problems, body aches, and joint pain.
Recognize any signs? If so, it may help to start working your way through these tips.
1. Get moving
Even a brisk 10-minute walk can help you feel better equipped to deal with everything that lies ahead.
“Exercise secretes endorphins, the hormones that improve our thinking, concentration, and mood,” Nesheiwat said.
Some people find that regular workouts alleviate their anxiety as much as medication. Even better: There’s evidence that regular aerobic exercise may help maintain brain size and function as you age.
2. Don’t undervalue the power of sleep
“Our body heals and regenerates when we rest,” Nesheiwat said.
Plus, if you don’t get enough shut-eye, your body will actually increase its output of stress hormones. Aim for seven to nine hours of sleep each night.
3. Eat well
“What we eat fuels our system,” Nesheiwat said.
Opt for whole grains, fruits, and veggies, which contain complex carbs that boost production of serotonin, a neurotransmitter that helps level out your mood.
Don’t forget to get enough vitamin C. While a daily glass of orange juice sounds like a random suggestion, Nesheiwat explains that “vitamin C can lower cortisol.”
4. Take care of your health
Stress is sometimes due to not what’s going on around you, but internal stressors, such as depression or diabetes.
“Get a thorough medical evaluation,” said Dr. Santosh Kesari, a neurologist, neuro-oncologist, neuroscientist, and chair and professor of the department of translational neurosciences and neurotherapeutics at the John Wayne Cancer Institute at Providence Saint John’s Health Center in Santa Monica, California.
5. Reach out to friends
When you socialize and feel supported, your body produces more oxytocin. This “feel good” hormone reduces anxiety and generates a sense of calmness. It also has the power to reduce those pesky cortisol levels.
6. Give your brain a break
Mindfulness exercises like yoga, relaxation, and meditation won’t magically make your stress evaporate, but they can help you better manage it.
Or at least help you feel like you can, which, of course, is half the battle.